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'I was going down on a ane night stand when of a sudden in that location was this spray, like a hosepipe.

'It went in my mouth and over my face. I was rather confused, trying to consume, before I realised what was going on.'

Toby*, a lawyer in his 30s, is talking about his feel of oral sex with a woman who ejaculated. He adds: 'neither of us said anything, and she didn't seem surprised, so I got the feeling information technology often happened.'

Medical experts are all the same to agree on what female ejaculation actually is, with some claiming it's simply urine.

But Toby, who's had a woman eject it in his face up, disagrees, explaining: 'it tasted like her pussy.'

We spoke to a range of men who say they've fabricated women eject to observe out more than.

Simon, a teacher in his 30s

Simon remembers a sixty-9 with his girlfriend at university when 'a soft but insistent dribble trickled into my oral fissure as she came. At first I was worried she'd weed, merely it tasted like her, so I imagine it was lady-ejaculate.'

Simon believes information technology happened because: 'I kept licking equally she was orgasming. Normally she'd push button me away, maxim "I tin't take it!"'

Simon was neither bothered nor excited by the squirting equally he'd 'never been into that from a porn perspective.'

Paul, an operations manager, 41

Paul says a woman ejaculating makes him feel like a Greek god.

Describing the first time information technology happened, Paul tells united states: 'It was with the adjacent door neighbour of a friend I was house-sitting for. She popped a note through the door, saying, "I'm Louise and I similar Prosecco" so I bought two bottles and went round at that place.'

Paul says Louise squirted after 10 to 15 minutes of penetration. 'A certain angle made it happen – she had to be on top, or laid flat in front of me, with me kneeling in front and then she was at the acme of my waist.

'Initially I thought she'd pissed all over the carpet. I was weirded out, but carried on equally it didn't seem to faze her. Once I worked what information technology was, I felt rather good virtually myself. It was similar pressing the push of a h2o fountain.'

The 2nd time it happened for Paul was with a adult female whose auto was for sale. He says: 'I'd been to see information technology, and she text me shortly after, leaving me under no illusion that the motorcar sale was summit priority. When it happened, I was soaked – it was similar her waters broke. She giggled like Barbara Windsor and blamed my ability to reach certain areas.'

Myles, a consultant in his 30s

'In conversations among men, making a woman squirt is a point of pride – it means y'all got the woman to the ultimate climax.

'I've been with 2 women who pushed for shower sexual practice the commencement fourth dimension we slept together, and they both turned out to be squirters, and then I presume it was to hide information technology.'

Each woman went on to ejaculate in bed the second time she and Myles slept together – with differing degrees of awkwardness.

'When information technology happened with the first woman, she was self-conscious,' says Myles. 'I told her it was natural and a compliment of sorts, but I got the impression that wasn't the typical response she'd had from guys in the past. She became more than comfy, but was always insecure near the mattress and sheets – she'd want to become back to hers and have a towel handy.'

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Jack, 41

'My ex never wanted to cum and I always wondered why. So one twenty-four hours when we'd been together three or 4 years, I was using my fingers and a vibrating egg while we were having sex, and she squirted all over my $.25.

'She was embarrassed and went to the bath – that's when I realised why she'd always held back.

'I thought information technology was hot, and information technology could've been an exciting turning betoken in our relationship, but she wouldn't talk nearly it. I think she hoped I didn't know or hadn't understood what happened.

'We were together another yr and it didn't happen again, which is sad. Information technology's sexy to get squirted because information technology'due south visual and you can't imitation that.'

Since splitting with his ex, Jack's had a better experience with squirting.

'It was during a i nighttime stand with an older woman. She asked if I had any kinks and I said I'd beloved to see her eject. She masturbated while I licked her, and then told me to be prepared.

'She squirted a lot. Information technology was sexy, and I was all wet and horny.'

Ben, in his 50s

Ben credits squirting with saving his spousal relationship: 'We were having a few problems, and then nosotros went to a class on female ejaculation. A couple showed usa how to practice information technology, and when we tried the technique at home, my married woman squirted so powerfully she could hardly end. The sheets were drenched and she was quivering. Every time I touched her, more would come.'

Ben says the biggest stumbling block was psychological, explaining: 'My wife was on the brink then panicked, thinking she was almost to pee.'

However, having overcome the impulse to agree it in, 'it'southward now almost as of import to her equally a clitoral climax. I find it a huge plow-on and information technology'southward revolutionised our sex life.'

Jason, 50

Jason had been with his wife ten years when they set out to make her eject. He explains: 'Nosotros were into swinging with this couple, and the guy said, "picket this!" and then fingered his wife until she gushed all over the flooring.

'I loved information technology, and my wife picked up on my enthusiasm, and then we tried it later. Information technology turns out she was fully capable once she learnt to allow go. She became and so expert that with my finger, and an electric toothbrush on her clit, she could gush any fourth dimension.'

Jason finds it sexy because: 'she's vulnerable and doing this in forepart of me because she knows I beloved it.'

Mark, an investor in his 40s

'My wife discovered she could eject xiii years into our marriage, during oral sexual practice at a swingers club.

'It was an open room with lots of activity, then information technology was like a sensory overload. She'southward an exhibitionist and it was the first fourth dimension nosotros'd had sex activity in front of other people, so she was turned on past being watched.

'Luckily you accept towels to take sex activity on, then there was no effect with the unexpected event.'

Mark's wife now squirts, 'whenever her arousal level is super high,' and as with nearly of the guys, Mark feels 'an actress sense of accomplishment' when she does.

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Ian, in his 50s

Ian recently met a woman through online dating whose squirting brought to heed the Trevi Fountains in Rome.

He says: 'She'southward in the Midlands and then we may never run across, but in a WhatsApp video call she masturbated her style to three mammoth squirting orgasms in ten minutes. I've never seen anything like it.'

Dean, in his 40s

'When information technology first happened, we'd been together almost 15 months and I'd just cut back on travelling for work, so nosotros could spend more time together.

'We were abroad for the weekend, and although the sex was the same, we were very close at that time, so perchance that had an event emotionally.

'She laughed, and I laughed too. We had a beverage, and she said "let's endeavor that once again" and then nosotros did. The next time it happened, nosotros were on holiday, so it seemed to happen when we were both laid back, and happy and comfortable with each other.'

So from the mouths of men who've experienced it, what is female ejaculate?

Jason believes it's urine that'southward, 'come out equally the result of a sexual orgasm, non a normal pee. The orgasm muscles have squeezed the bladder and made her gush, because it comes out so forcefully.'

Jason's by himself with this theory, equally all the other guys are certain it's not urine.

Mark says: 'I don't call up information technology's pee. I honestly feel information technology'southward female person ejaculate, it's simply less mutual due to not being biologically required for procreation."

Steve, who'due south 33, works in politics, and was chuffed to have a squirting come across after holding information technology upwardly as the holy grail since reading near it every bit a teenager in his dad'due south FHM. He offers this nugget of evidence: 'my bedroom didn't stink of stale piss after.'

Dean says similarly, 'if information technology was wee and so both my housekeeper and I would know. I have children, so I know what wee in a bed is like, and this doesn't odor or feel similar wee.'

Mick, who'southward in his 50s and works in logistics, says, 'it doesn't odour of wee and seems to come from deeper inside my partner than her urethra. It too has a more gloopy texture than wee.'

Paul puts it like this: 'Information technology'southward the same consistency as waters breaking, and it smells similar vagina not wee.'

While it's still not clear what exactly female person ejaculation really is, what we do know is that it can exist pretty enjoyable. Relax, enjoy it, and close down any feelings of embarrassment.

Relationship and dating charabanc James Preece tells usa: 'It tin can be a shock the first time information technology happens, but the practiced news is, you're most likely doing something right, then yous can be proud you lot're pleasing her.

'Don't make a big deal of information technology – but have a towel handy! If she's embarrassed, reassure her information technology'south completely natural.'

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